Saturday, July 31, 2010

Friendship.....

      Happy Friendship's Day..... Its a nice rainy morning to start my blog & Friendship Day gives me my 1'st subject... Well, its the best & most written subject... And still I want write few words..
           Since last night my Cell phone is ringing continuously with the Friendship's day messages & calls.. Some of these people were so out of touch.... But still they remembered me today !!! So I was thinking what is friendship???? And the very first thought that came to my mind was, It is the first relationship that 'We Choose'... Since we are borne we are being introduced to people tagged Mother.. Father... Grandparents.. Aunts.. Uncles.. Brothers.. Sisters.. & it goes on and on as we grow older.. But out of all these we get the first chance where we ask someone to be part of our life or someone else ask us to be there. So that's what makes Friendship a special relationship....
        I was thinking about my journey since I could remember... & realized how blessed I am!! Because there were many moments I could not have done better as I did without my friends. Friends that I made so far may were there with me for a reason... for a season... or for the lifetime... But everyone made my life colourful.. may be with bright happy moments or dark sad moments.. While thinking I realized, it was easy to be friend with someone when I was a kid... I had no demands.. ego.. grievances.. competition.. & lots of things that may keep you away from being just a friend.... It was like we fought few hours ago & giggling like nothing happened .... we don't have to know the person to be a friend, just the name is enough.... Everything seemed so easy.. & then we grow up... & everything starts becoming difficult....
          But still I have friends around me to whom I can say anything & everything.. I can call them at any hour just to say something as stupid as "I am hungry & there is nothing in freeze". There are friends who make an effort to cross the walls that I put around me & ask what is wrong behind that smile of mine?.. They understand me in every situation & stand by me in all the good & bad times.. they tolerate my worst moods & Euphoria... And just can not stop loving me....
        So, today I take this opportunity to thank & appreciate all these FRIENDS for accepting & Loving me the way I am ....